Sunday, June 22, 2008 @ 9:42 PM
haiz.. dunno why i seem to feel so troubled.. like no one to speak to.. was talking to bernie in msn now.. was telling her tt sometimes i was thinking tt i seem to have many friends, but when really say friends, like not much.. she agreed too.. cos true friend is hard to find la.. really, is hard to find someone who we can really talk to.. now i was looking at my bcm presentation abt friends.. What is friend?
A friend is someone who goes with you in the good times and bad times.
A friend is a person who comes and wont judge a flower by its color.
A person who will never give up on you.
A person who will comfort you when storms of tears are in your mind.
A person that doesn't mind expressing their happy or sad feelings to you.
A friend is someone who you can depend on.
A friend is someone who cares for you, who sticks by your side when you're lonely, who helps you up when you get hurt, but most importantly friends come in different ways.
Difference between friends and best friends
Friend: Has never seen you cry
Best friend: Has always the best shoulder to cry on
Friend: Never asks for anything to eat or drink
Best friend: Opens the fridge and makes himself at home
Friend: Asks you to write down your number.
Best friend: They ask you for their number(cos they cant rmb it)
Friend: Only knows a few things about you
Best friend: Could write a biography on your life story
Friend: Will leave you behind if that is what the crowd is doing
Best friend: Will always go with you
Maintaining friendship
Be a good listener; refrain from offering advice or moralizing.
Never betray a trust. Trust, when violated can ruin even the best friendship.
Support and praise your friends: ignore their failures and imperfections.
Never resent a friend's success. Instead, strive to admire her achievements.
Good friends are like stars.....
You don't always see them,
but you know they are always there.
well, i may not be a very good friend. but i will treat my friend nicely when i think they shld be treated nicely. will update my fav friend list next time. now i juz came across an email which i think is meaningful.
One day a farmer's donkey fell down into a well. The animal cried piteously for hours as the farmer tried to figure out what to do. Finally, he decided the animal was old, and the well needed to be covered up anyway; it just wasn't worth it to retrieve the donkey.
He invited all his neighbours to come over and help him. They all grabbed a shovel and began to shovel dirt into the well. At first, the donkey realized what was happening and cried horribly. Then, to everyone's amazement he quieted down.
A few shovel loads later, the farmer finally looked down the well. he was astonished at what he saw. With each shovel of dirt that hit his back, the donkey was doing something amazing. He would shake it off and take a step up.
As the farmer's neighbours continued to shovel dirt on top of the animal, he would shake it off and take a step up. Pretty soon, everyone was amazed as the donkey stepped over the edge of the well and happily trotted off.
MORAL:
Life is going to shovel dirt on you, all kinds of dirt. The trick to getting out of the well is to shake it off an take a step up. Each of our troubles is a steppingstone. We can get out of the deepest wells just by not stopping, never giving up! Shake it off and take a step up.
Remember the five simple rules to be happy:
1. Free your heart from hatred - Forgive
2. Free your mind from worries - Most never happen.
3. Live simply and appreciate what you have.
4. Give more.
5. Expect less.
You have two choices...smile and close this page, or pass this along to someone else to spread the fun. I know what i did!!
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' In this life we cannot do great things. We can only do small things with great love. '
-Mother Theresa
